Jamayra, Jamaya & Mayjam
I am not sure how these higher level players know you need help without you asking or it, (or someone in your group). so how are they too fast to help? After reading over your original post I am still left with the impression that you want something to change about how help is offered, or who is able to help. Honestly, it is not very clear what your actual intentions are but since most of your post and even the title of this thread is about higher level players helping you and how this can be a distraction from your optimal game experience (my words not yours because I have to paraphrase). It seems that you want changes to how players can or will help each other in order for you to better enjoy the game personally.
is nice & should not be erased. Was a reflexion, a critic maybe too. Is it ok to give constructive critic? Or is it forbidden? Really liked to see what people think about it. Tbh, I don’t understand the defensive tone here.